A General Manager of a 5-star Forbes Luxury Hotel Revealed a Secret – He Had Never Admitted Before.

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Last week, I was on a call with him when he threw me a curveball:

โ€œWhy are you in recruitment?โ€

It rolled right off my tongue:
โ€œBecause the most beautiful decoration in any hotel isnโ€™t the designer lighting or marble floors, itโ€™s the people.โ€

Silence. A slow exhale. Then he leaned in and said:

โ€œYou know, Heidi, I spent years chasing titles, bigger budgets, more attractive bonuses, grander openings…

I thought success was measured in financial performance, Forbes rankings, and how many VIPs walked through our doors, completely wow’ed.

But hereโ€™s the part I never said out loud: after all those years, all that red carpet treatment, all those industry awards…

The guests donโ€™t remember my name.

The owners rarely remember me.

But the team?

They remember exactly who I was.

They remember if I was the leader who pushed them forward or the one who hardly looked their way.

They remember if I set the gold standard or if I was just another forgettable LinkedIn announcement.

Thatโ€™s when I saw the real gold in hospitality isnโ€™t in the dรฉcor.

The true measure of success isnโ€™t the hotels you manage.

Itโ€™s the people who still say your name even when youโ€™re not in the room because of the richness you added to their life.

Thatโ€™s when my ego started to melt like sorbet on a golden spoon, right before my eyes.”